For the record, this is not about me. I did not break up with someone, not even in the process of doing so simply because my status is NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP. However, The next time I get into one, its for keeps. After all, I waited this long, it should be worth my wait. I am an observer though a very recent bad break-up - yet again! I'm not whatsoever involved in it but somehow, it affected me because it involves someone close to my heart.
No such thing as "parting in sweet sorrow". Break-ups are painful, devastating (which is why I don't intend to go through it again.) and can get downright ugly. Its because it involves emotions and emotions doesn't make one think, only feel which makes one act on impulse that is not a good thing. Before you know it, You already did something regrettable. How often do you watch the news and hear countless stories about 'crimes of passion or incidents involving lovers quarreling which leads to violence, court case or even death?
Can't help but think why does it have to end that way.... Yes, breaking up is hard to do. Both parties hurt all the same.Stop pushing it because if its going to work out, this won't be happening in the first place. When one keeps pushing it, the more complicated it gets. So, Let go! One always has a choice to think before they act or before something comes out of their mouth. Think if this is a battle worth fighting for... some battles are better left not fought because its not even worth it. I believe that this kind of circumstance reveal your upbringing, class and breeding whether you have one or not. Think about your immediate family before doing something you might end up regretting. You represent them, don't put yourself or them in the " Hall of Shame."
Sometimes, the best way to do it is to simply turn your back with your dignity intact, handle it with grace and keep yourself together - at least try then try harder. Time heals, I should know. =)
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